Muse.me.my.muse

This one's for Antzy who has compelled me to scratch some rantings here when I bucketloads of work. Thanks Antz *smack on the back*. How do relationships which go on for years survive? Is love doomed when one carries on over the expiry period of more than 5 years? *shakes head in the negative* How then does it all work? How does the passion and respect remain or solidify? Why? Tony Parsons throws it out for us..

'How do you love someone for a lifetime? You just keep falling in love with the same person' -Tony Parsons- (By the way, Tony Parsons The Family Way rawks. Its about grown-ups -i'd be an ass to claim im there yet-. And babies. Im not a baby person, but Parsons got me compelled to experience childbirth. For five minutes.)

But Parsons's wrong! You dont love someone a lifetime by falling in love with the same person again and again. How? Life isnt an eternal playground and you'd betcha get tired swirling yourself on the same roundabout no matter how much a thrill it's always given you. Love works, because, you're loving a different person each change of season, each twist in event. People evolve. And it is when you rise up together and experience the multi-facets and paradox of each other that you keep falling in love, with the same person, but with different personas and reflections of that person youve always known. And Laughter. The laughter that keeps coming in is wayy better than a Porsche Carrera Cabriolet or a trip to Bahamas. wait. who am i kidding. Nothing's better than that Porsche *grin*. materialistic bitch.

I marvel, at how B still makes me convulse, wobble and shake with laughter so hard i cant breathe. *burp*

People say 10 years of dating before marriage is devoid of 'spark'. Let's not be cynics. At the end of the day, its really a question of whether you've got the goods to remain each other's Muse. In both ways of the word. And for a jolly long time too.